Make Him Want You

Do you ever get a gut feeling about someone the instant you meet them?

When that happens, you know it’s not because of what they said or did. It’s some kind of signal you read in their facial expression, vocal tone, or body language.

Surprisingly, researchers have found that we are quite accurate with these instantaneous assessments about people.

The simple fact is, you know things about a person the second you meet them. And you react to these unspoken signals automatically.

If you’re good at reading people, you may not find it surprising to learn that men and women notice different kinds of signals when interacting with a potential mate.

Otherwise, keep reading to learn about a particular signal you’re broadcasting to men all the time (whether you know it or not).

It’s probably not what you would expect.

You see, there’s a specific kind of body language men simply can’t ignore.

It’s a signal that can spark romantic feelings. Or it can repel him, depending on what he’s reading from your nonverbal cues.

Would you like to know what it is?

With the wrong signal, you end up with this:

• The attention from the wrong kind of guys. The ones you aren’t interested in.

• The initial attraction that later fades with the one guy you really wanted to attract.

• A slow and painful death for the attraction and passion in your existing relationship.

But with a slight adjustment, you could be sending the right signal all the time. And you’d end up getting results more like this:

• The passion that intensifies the longer you’re together

• A guy who clearly feels protective of you

• A deep feeling of private exclusivity as he lets you into his inner world

The difference can be dramatic. And it all comes down to this one signal I’m about to show you.

In order to explain this signal, think of yourself as a radio tower.

This kind of “listening” determines how we feel about each person we meet. And when it comes to romantic relationships, it tells us far more than spoken words.

Now tell me this. Which man would you rather commit to for life?

A man who compliments your beauty but seems to have difficulty keeping his eyes off other women? Or a man who is reserved with his compliments, but seems to have eyes only for you?

The truth is, no one wants to end up with someone who is just settling. Instead, you want to feel desired.

Men are no different. But what makes men feel desired is very different from what makes women feel desired.

For example, research shows men often confuse love and respect. A man does not want to be loved by a romantic partner unless she also holds him in high regard compared with other men.

Otherwise, it just feels like motherly love. That’s not what he wants. It’s not how he wants to perceive himself in his primary relationship.

And that’s why...

He doesn’t want you to settle.

He wants to feel like you see him as the ultimate catch.

Otherwise, it deflates his ego. And with it, his passion for the relationship deflates too.

He just can’t picture himself with a woman who looks up to other men more than she looks up to him.

But this is where things get confusing.

Many women want to make their men feel loved.

But a woman’s idea of loving communication is very different than a man’s.

How do you communicate your true feelings to a man? And why are men so sensitive to tiny signals about where you rank them compared with other men?

To dive a little deeper into that particular question, I put together a video presentation on the topic.

It explains the most powerful signals you can use to grab a man’s attention.