How to Get Over A Breakup

Would you get into a relationship if you knew it wasn’t going to last?

Many of us, if given a crystal ball, would take one look at the last days of a love affair and swear off that relationship completely.

There’s no point in falling for someone if it’s going to end THAT badly.

Or is there?

It goes without saying that breakups are bad. Divorce is even worse.

When a relationship ends, you may experience depression, anxiety, insomnia, skin flare-ups, aches and pains, drastic weight loss or gain, or illness.

One cardiologist reported seeing a greater incidence of heart attacks in people who’d recently broken up.

Breaking up can literally break your heart.

But have breakups been given a bad rap?

Is it really true that the only worthwhile relationships are those that last forever?

Ty Tashiro and Patricia Frazier from the University of Minnesota believe that we’ve overlooked the possibility of achieving "positive life changes following relationship breakups."

In a 2003 study of broken-hearted undergraduates, they found evidence that breakups spurred personal growth, particularly in women.

He may not be the best influence.

Even though you may love someone very much and treasure his presence in your life, he may not be the best influence.

Having a partner who likes eating pizza, drinking beer, and watching television on his time off can impact your health, if you choose to join him in those activities.

A partner who is often angry or negative can increase your stress levels.

Your partner can also influence whether or not you pursue your dreams.

If he thinks your career goals are silly or unrealistic, or if he thinks it’s a waste of money to go back to school, you may put your dreams on the back burner.

It’s hard to see all the ways in which your choice of partner is affecting your life until the relationship ends and you’re free again.

As scary as being on your own may seem, being single gives you the chance to rediscover who you are.

Single Again?

Not all breakups ruin your life. Some breakups make your life.

So, if you’ve found yourself single again, use this time to learn everything you can about yourself, your tastes, and the kind of relationship you want next.

By the way, one of the best ways to get over a breakup is to fall in love with someone new.

A relationship that makes your heart sing is (in my opinion) the remedy for a broken heart

To help with that, I’d like to share a secret with you.

It’s a secret about the way men think.

As a dating and relationship coach, I’ve tested this one simple idea with thousands of women who wanted to win back the affection of a man or spark a connection with someone new.

I’ve created a short video to explain what I discovered and why it helps women create the relationship they want.

Here’s the link to go watch my video now that has the power to forever change your luck with men.

To your beautiful future,

James Bauer